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The most complex emotion is Love. It is in various forms in different relationships and its degree keeps on varying barring a few exceptional cases where it is “unconditional” or even “one-sided”. One must have love for all in general.
In its true sense love is giving - but sooner or later it should also be reciprocal in order to develop an ideal relationship. It's only one-sided among saints and obsessed persons. The young ones have their flings too - be it puppy love or infatuation. Love can also be silent, boisterous or even very intense.
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In an ideal form it is always mutual. It can mess up one's life unless it is reciprocated or returned by the person to whom love is directed.
After knowing so much about Love, let's understand care. Care is an emotion which is more of a concern turning into an action of bringing comfort, help or relief. Love generally should motivate one to care, but care always need not origin from love. It can be through compassion, pity or even a part of relationships- for example care for neighbours, people, friends at large.
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Love is not blind - by exercising some awareness and understanding one will not be obsessed to go to extremes. One can check self or even the other party before it creates a situation of helplessness leading to hopelessness. Even care should be shown without sending wrong signals of love, when it is not meant to be so. Of course care can be a valuable trait of any human being for it helps to put a person at ease making him feel comfortable and worthwhile. Even animals appreciate and show gratitude for the care, but from humans one need not expect appreciation due to fickle or inconsistent nature.
Care of a child for his belongings be it a toy or a book, for parents, friends or anyone for that reason can be easily noticed. Care for parents, friends,
relatives, neighbours or even employee or employer brings joy. Knowing this impact of care we must make it our natural trait. This natural or “spontaneous” expression of care will not only bring joy but also lead to success. Haven't you noticed in restaurants or even shops whoever attends to you with care is not only remembered but even appreciated and rewarded as we do so by giving tips to waiters.
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Care in life helps you win friends and build better relationships. Even your near and dear ones long for care and expect it as you are not supposed to be a detached soul nor an out of world angel so as not to raise any expectations of attention and care.
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Once you have understood role of Love and Care in life and right way to express and by blending the two great emotions in your day-to-day life, you will not only make your life a bed of roses but also have better relationships leading to ultimate happiness and get joy of living.
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