Empowering Yourself

Opportunities Today : August 2006 Issue

Empowering Yourself

 

Most of us feel helpless and put no action in situations where a little bit of thoughtfulness would get us a solution. Why it is so? The answer is already in the two words “feel helpless”.

 

Why do people feel helpless and land themselves in difficulty causing inconvenience and even loss? Well again the answer is with us only! The clear cause is people shirk work or action due to lack of “initiative” and applying mind. The only ground for inaction is finding an excuse or passing the buck of action onto someone else. “Initiative” comes through sense of responsibility. Most of us avoid taking responsibility, even when it is thrust on them or happens to fall on them, People like to avoid responsibility, keep it aside or even run away from it. This attitude may originate from lethargy, laziness and even lack of commitment.

 

The solution is to accept the responsibility and that too with commitment. Once this approach is adopted you feel motivated to take action, no matter at times, you may take sufficient help from others. With each responsibility there is an authority that empowers you to get cracking with the job.

 

Let's take an example of a student who has not been regular in his studies. Moment he knows there are exams on the anvil and he takes responsibility, and takes authority over himself and his time, he works hard to make up for the missed preparation and thus “empowering self” through responsibility, which in turns help him to cope with the situation. Similarly in offices too, especially the so called government or bureaucratic style people wash their hands from responsibility. They pose helplessness adding to hopelessness for many.

 

Today India is marching ahead by leap and bounds. Scenario is changing. Youngsters want to work, achieve and earn a lot of money. They start taking responsibility for their success and this “empowers” them to even work in a call center for earning. The wiser among those use the money not on flaunting brands but learning some new skills thus acquiring knowledge of new fields for safer and stable jobs in the main career stream. So “empowering yourself” becomes easy. All you need is just to own the responsibility and you can involve the whole world to get you the results and rewards.